Posted in Life on December 31, 2009|
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2009 was a bittersweet year for me. I lost my Dad in June. He was 93 and was my biggest fan and one of my best friends.
With this great loss, I began to take stock of where I was at and one thing that stood out to me (and ironically was something my dad was always lecturing me about) was that I needed to SLOW DOWN. It seems that I'm not happy unless I'm going full-speed ahead. With business, workouts, schedules, etc, etc.
This year I finally understood what my dad meant. In my grieving process, I slept alot. Instead of going to the gym during the summer, I stayed home with Ellie. I worked less, we slept in, played, went on bike rides and long walks to the grocery store. We took the dogs. Somewhere along the line, I ended up enjoying myself immensely.
I was more relaxed. I ate healthier. I lost weight. I began to feel like my old self.
I also learned some important lessons this year. I would like to say that I did this by reading profound and insightful books. Or that I took a life-changing course at the local college. But I didn't. I learned from observing other people that I admire to see traits in them that I would like to adopt. My husband, friends, other moms at Ellie's school, family members and even my beautiful Ellie.
Here are some things I've learned in '09:
– Walk your talk.
– Speak from the heart.
– Enjoy what you do.
– Be authentic (this one is for my friend Lisa! who I greatly admire for this trait).
– Be consistent (thank you John)
– Serving others is a quick route to God (and peace in your heart).
– Laughing really is good medicine.
– Live in the present.
– Be grateful. For EVERY thing.
– Each day is a gift. Not a given.
– Say you're sorry.
– Be honest even if you're afraid.
– Don't make excuses.
– Document your life's events for the next generation (this is for Gabi!)
– It's never too late to change.
– Love is the only thing that matters.
– Keep your promises.
– Question everything (even some of your own thoughts).
– Reach out to others.
– When friends ask you out, say YES! 🙂 —-> for Heidi, Amy, Gail & esp. Deb!
– Every day is beautiful (even in cloudy, overcast Michigan)
– Try something new whenever you can.
– Turn off the TV once in a while.
– Reading is fundamental.
– Dancing to pop music is fun.
– Dog, spelled backward, is God. (Thank you sweet E!)
Have a Blessed and Beautiful 2010!
xoxo
N.
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